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04-21-2010, 12:35 PM
Hi, i'm really just looking for some advice from some ladies who will understand better than anyone!
I split from my army boyfriend of one year, 3 weeks ago. I was new to the army lifestyle when we met and have struggled with the short notice changes and him been away for periods of time. I understand it his is job and life but that didnt stop me getting upset, after one arguement my now ex said we had to end it even though he loves me with all his heart, I am the women he wants to marry and have children with but cannot give me the stability and input I need at the moment.
I am insecure and there were a few occasions that fueled that, but even though it was difficult I know i would have got my head round it, maybe not liked it but I would of coped with his support.
He has asked for no contact for a few months as contact would "kill" him!!
Advice on thw whole thing and to get him back, he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!
I split from my army boyfriend of one year, 3 weeks ago. I was new to the army lifestyle when we met and have struggled with the short notice changes and him been away for periods of time. I understand it his is job and life but that didnt stop me getting upset, after one arguement my now ex said we had to end it even though he loves me with all his heart, I am the women he wants to marry and have children with but cannot give me the stability and input I need at the moment.
I am insecure and there were a few occasions that fueled that, but even though it was difficult I know i would have got my head round it, maybe not liked it but I would of coped with his support.
He has asked for no contact for a few months as contact would "kill" him!!
Advice on thw whole thing and to get him back, he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!